Imagine you visit a strange country called Utopia. People there do all kinds of atrocious things by your own moral standards. Not only is their behavior atrocious, but as far as you can tell, unpredictable. When you ask them why they behave in such an unpredictable manner, hoping there's a meaning to the madness, they tell you, "you can't know why because you are not Utopian." You tell them, "well, even if I am not Utopian, there must be some discernable logic to your actions, perhaps some kind of Utopian logic?" They only continue to stonewall, justifying their actions on the basis of being Utopian alone, and telling you that you can't understand because you are not Utopian. You ask, "well, what makes you a Utopian? What are the objective criteria that makes you a Utopian? I've heard that Utopians have basically the same DNA distribution as any other group of humans. What is it to be a Utopian?" "We know that we are Utopian because we all share a subjective experience that tells us so, which you don't share, that is enough." "How do you know I don't share it? " "We know, because we are Utopian. If you were Utopian as fellow Utopians, we would know." "Well, how can I attain Utopianhood, what do I have to do?" "You just have to have an awakening experience. It will happen to you someday, or not happen. That's all we can say. When you become a Utopian, you will know, and so will we." You press them, "what is it you know? What is it that you observe that you didn't previously observe? Can't you describe it to me?" "You just kind of know, all Utopians just know. And as you're not Utopian, as we said, you can't understand, so it is pointless to ask questions such as this." They explain to you. In your frustration you even go as far as to point out that brain scans reveal that they don't appear to have any brain activity apart from the same kind of 'normal' brain activity any other human would have. They point out that that may be so, but no brain scan has access to subjective understanding. They continue on much to your bafflement in unpredictable behavior that you consider morally atrocious.
What should the non-Utopian's attitude be towards the Utopians? Should he accept their morally atrocious behavior and merely be resigned to the fact that he can never understand it as he is not a Utopian?